Possibly Ending Engagement: Need Advice, Strength & Support

posted 2 years ago in Engagement
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2005 - A Castle

This makes me sad for you. Unfortunately, there’s no way out of this that won’t suck for at least one of you. You gotta pull up your big girl panties and do what’s right for you.

Before we were married, my husband and I split up and it was every bit as terrible as I thought it would be, but we were not in a good place and we had no business getting married at that time. After we had the dreaded talk, he slept on the couch until I moved out (my choice to leave). Moving day was on a day I knew he wouldn’t be home to avoid any awkward goodbye. By the time I moved out, I just wanted to be gone. We didn’t stay broken up, but I know what it’s like to go through the emotional rollercoaster of ending an engagement.

I hope you can find the strength to do what you need to do because you will be miserable otherwise and there’s no reason to live like that.

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