- 4 years ago
I have a close friend that I have had in my life for years. We met in high school and go to the same church. We have been very open with each other about many aspects of our lives. Those aspects include relationships and sex. She knew that my boyfriend and I slept together. She would ask questions about it and such. She seemed nosey at times but I didn’t let it bother me. She seemed supportive of my relationship with my boyfriend and I thought we were great friends. Yesterday we met up and talked for a couple of hours. She basically said that my boyfriend and I sleeping together was an issue for her. She said that having a close relationship with someone who was openly living a life of “sin” was stressful for her and something she was not used to. I honestly didn’t know what to say. We didn’t argue or anything but I was just shocked. She said that we were still friends but it was just something that she had been needing to say. I honestly don’t know how I feel about this.
Has anyone been in a situation like this? Would you consider this friendship to be over?