(Closed) Possibly pushing wedding back due to finances-sad but relieved!

posted 6 years ago in Money
Post # 3
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: April 2012

it’s better to push the date and actually enjoy your wedding experience without the financial burden or stress.  smart move.

Post # 5
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1292 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: January 2013

I wish I could postpone but I would lose about 5000.00 at this point. You’ll definitely feel better about the wedding if you have more time to prepare.

Post # 6
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

I think you made the right decision and those who truly care about you will understand. We had to push ours back because of my health issues. Did everyone understand? No but whatever! Just blow out a deep breath and move on. Life happens and things don’t always go according to plan.

Post # 7
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

@idolina:  If you still do the STD this December, make 2014 REALLY REALLY big and clear. I would assume something I received more than a year in advance was for the upcoming year, not two Augusts from now.

I personally would just spread the news by word of mouth.

Post # 9
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

I think you’re making the right decision and it’s still early enough that you can push the wedding back wihtout too much hassles. 

I wanted to push mine back to next year because I worried about the money aspect as well as my family not being able to come.  It all worked out though.  And I really didnt want to push it back, it was a thouht I expressed to my mom and she was adamant about not doing that…that they would find a way to come and things would work itself out.  I am glad I didn’t push it back but I wish I had started planning for this wedding last year. I only had 9 months to plan and save.

Post # 11
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

Glad it worked out. We pushed ours back because he is in the military and it doesn’t do much good to have a wedding with the groom across the globe. haha.

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