(Closed) Possibly Short a BM

posted 9 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
1896 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2009 - St. Thomas of Villanova Church & the F.U.E.L. House

Not too odd 🙂  I think it’d be great if she could still join you!  Maybe you could make a brief announcement — like if you and your mister make a mini speech at the reception — noting that she wasn’t originally able to attend, but could now so that’s why she’s not in the program?  Or list her anyway as an honorary BM!

Post # 4
647 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

I don’t think it’d be odd if you didn’t have a bridesmaid listed on the programs and stuff.  To be totally honest, at the weddings I’ve been to, I’ve never tried to match the bridesmaids with the program, so I don’t know that many people would notice or be bothered by that.


I agree with Bruschetta, the honorary bridesmaid thing sounds like a sweet touch and you’re good to go if she can make it!

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