(Closed) POST-Marriage changes

posted 8 years ago in Married Life
  • poll: How much did your life change after marriage?
    It's unrecognizable to me : (0 votes)
    It was different but scary : (0 votes)
    It was different but fun : (5 votes)
    31 %
    No big changes : (11 votes)
    69 %
  • Post # 3
    Member
    6572 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: February 2010

    We lived together before we got married, and even started combining finances then, but I still feel like things are different. I feel very safe and secure having my hubby there. We’ve been through a lot (health issues and surgeries on both of our parts) and it’s only been 6 months. I know that he would have been there if we weren’t married, but the fact that we do have that commitment makes it easier, and just better in general.

    Post # 4
    Member
    1995 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: June 2010

    We’ve only been married a few months but I would say not much has changed.  We moved in together the month before the wedding as we got used to living together very quickly.  We get along day to day very easily and have similar habits and expectations of chores, cooking etc.  Even with Darling Husband working nights or 12 hr day shifts we still live as if we’ve been doing it for years!  Coming up will be our first holidays so that’ll be more interesting!

    Post # 5
    Member
    2781 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: July 2010

    We’re the same way. We’ve lived together throughout most of our relationship and since then we’ve always done the big discussions, finances, jobs, etc. Being married is more about learning to be more accepting of each other now I think. But we’re also going through a lot of big home changes as well (I’m changing career, we’re looking to buy our first house) so it’s hard in different aspects. 

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