- 6 years ago
- Wedding: June 2012
So I eloped. I had no intention of doing a registry because I didn’t think I would get any gifts. My mother is requesting i make one because people have asked if I have one. So, my plan is to do a registry, but only send the link to someone if they ask for it. Is that reasonable?
Also, we will be having a party in October to celebrate our wedding because Darling Husband and family has requested it. I’m so torn on who to invite. I feel selfish inviting people from out of town when it is just a dinner and drinks event and not a full blown wedding weekend. I know they get to make up their own minds. Also, I don’t want family to feel obligated to come and I don’t want to feel obligated to entertain for an entire weekend (this is part of why we eloped in the 1st place). Any advice on how best to handle this?