- 5 years ago
I was in a wedding where the couple was engaged for almost 3 years. During that time, I did everything I could to make the day special. To start with I did the engagement shoot, created a wedding website, designed / manufactured the save the dates, hosted multiple showers and engagement parties… and more (the entire wedding was DIY). For years, I spared no expense and spent a majority of my free time trying to make this experience everything the bride wanted it to be. Basically every time we spoke or hung out during the entire engagement was somehow related to the wedding. I was so happy for her the whole time, and excused some pretty offensive behavior on her part.
After the wedding, she told me she was disappointed with me as a Maid/Matron of Honor, didn’t feel like I put in any effort, and that she felt like the wedding wasn’t my top priority. I am so hurt by this I don’t even know what to do. Has anyone has experience with this?