Post # 1
I got married y’all! I married my best friend in a beautiful ceremony. The weather was perfect, the floral decorations were out of this world, and everything went according to plan. My parents helped me plan and I wasn’t always 100% involved so there were a few wonderful surprises as well. But..now I am sad it is over. I had a 14 month engagement and I am sad that this milestone is done. The whole wedding day itself just flew by and our actual wedding reception was shorter than I expected it would be and ended at 10:30 pm. Everything went by so quickly and I know I will eventually get to relive it through pictures and videos but I can’t help feeling a bit sad. I am hoping I soaked everything in. I think I am also sad that now all my relatives and fanily friends are gone like that and that’ll it’ll probably take another wedding or huge event to bring everyone back together.
I do have to say that the week we spent on our honeymoon was amazing because I love my husband (literally just typed fiance, not used to husband yet) even more! I got to know more about him and we enjoyed our little adventures!!
Have any other bees felt similarly? I hope this doesn’t make me sound selfish. I am focusing on what is ahead.
This topic was modified 4 years, 10 months ago by sadbee1992.
Post # 2
Our wedding day was magical too, I just wanna do it again and again! I get bouts of post wedding/holiday blues too but then I recall how awful planning was and how much money we spent and that pulls my head in a bit.
Post # 3
I had serious, serious post wedding blues. I wouldnt even come on bee! Its hard because you put so much time into the littlest details and then its over! Our recpetion went until 3am but it still was too short and flew by. Here’s what helped me and I hope it helps you too…I felt better after I would look through wedding photos. Getting my pro pics and wedding video back was super helpful and gave me comfort. As I looked through them it reminded me of details that I forgot that happened through the day and all of the happiness. I also found out a lot of people get the blues after and until I got them i didnt even know it exists! lol! Youre not selfish at all. Hang in there…sadly I had them for about 3 months but almost 6 months later now I feel sooooo much better….huggs
Post # 4
well just enjoy the memories and find a new hobby to focus on. Maybe giving some redecorating love to your bedroom or living room? Or hey you can always get knocked up haha (Kidding… or not?)
Post # 5
Definitely normal. I felt the same way for awhile. I was happy to be done with wedding planning, but the week of the wedding and then the honeymoon were absolutely perfect. I had the time of my life, and so I was bummed to go back to normal life.
I’m glad you had such a magical time!
Post # 6
I got married 3 weeks ago, tomorrow. I’m having post-wedding and post – honeymoon blues as well. I seem to have a lot of time on my hands. My wedding day was amazing. I miss my family and friends. I’ll snap out of it.
Post # 7
I’m nervous about this! After putting all that time and energy into it it’s going to be so hard to let it go. We did have to postpone our honeymoon though. Fiance got a new job and it changed his vacation availability. We get married July 11th and leave for the honeymoon Sept. 29th so at least I’ll still have that to look forward to!