Post # 1
Anyone else blue that it’s all over? My husband and I had an absolutely blissful wedding day on Sept 26 and we just got back from our “minimoon” last night. I am feeling a little blue, especially because we’re not yet moved in together (we are moving into our new place on 10/23) and so now I am kind of overwhelmed with trying to pack, get ready to move, and go back to work!
I am so grateful that we had such a wonderful wedding but I am a little blue. :o( Anyone else?
Post # 3
I know I was blue it was all over. Even a year later, I kind of miss the planning so I’ve been trying to keep myself entertained by helping to plan families events e.g. birthday parties, baby showers, etc. I was hoping that having a new house to decorate would keep me busy, but so far I am like I was in the beginning of wedding planning….completely uninspired! Hopefully once you move in together getting to decorate and build your nest will help wash your blues away!
Post # 4
Wonderful wedding 1 week ago, got back from honeymoon 3 days ago, going back to work tomorrow. Feeling really low as well- you’re not alone.
Post # 5
I hear it is REALLY common to have a post-wedding depression
I am not doing too badly…but I certainly feel it a little bit. After 9 months of planning…its suddently all over. I find myself feel a little antsy. I had such focus for such a long time…now it’s over and don’t and I don’t really know what to do with myself
I was reading a book that offered some good advice. It says to try to draw out all the fun of being a newlywed. For example…have a party and use all your new dishes and serve ware. I have really enjoyed cooking from our new cookbooks and everynight we eeat off our new plates. Something really small..but it makes me happy
I think it is about changing our thoughts. We were focused on the wedding for so long, that it can feel like a let down. So try to play up all the fun parts of being a newlywed. I plan to like this “newlywed thing” for as long as I can! 🙂
Post # 6
Congrats on your wedding! 🙂 I’m sorry you’re feeling down. 🙁 Maybe moving will help, because it will give you something else to focus on and a place to decorate! That can be your new project!
I’m really worried that this is going to happen to me. I get depressed just thinking about it being over.