(Closed) Post-wedding “blues”–is it real and have you experienced it?

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
  • poll: Did you (or think you will) experience post-wedding blues?
    Yes : (8 votes)
    73 %
    No : (1 votes)
    9 %
    Somewhat : (2 votes)
    18 %
  • Post # 3
    5199 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: January 2010


    But I fall into the just excited to be married group, I guess. I was not the “typical” planning bride (given my husband did most of the planning for our rather small, casual and intimate affair), nor did I have the usual well-planned wedding. We put together something very “us” in a short time frame, rather than devote months and many conversations to it!

    It was amazing all the same and memorable, but to me the important part of the wedding was always the vows themselves, and the marriage we were entering into together with each other. That is what sticks with me most from that day.

    So, no blues here. Married life for us was just as it was before-married life, pretty darn awesome. The wedding did not “change” the relationship or change how we related or lived, but we still felt a little different anyway in a deeper sense due to the vows we made to each other in a legal ceremony, and so that was exciting! We still each think it was one of the best decisions we ever made!

    Post # 4
    2607 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: September 2011

    My life is SO much better than before Darling Husband came along… but I did have a bit of a “deflated” feeling once the wedding, and first month or so of constant congratulations were over.  It makes sense since there is so much lead up and anticipation to the wedding, then POOF, it’s over.

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