(Closed) Post wedding blues? Is this normal?

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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8424 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2012

I got married 10/11/12 a little over a week ago. I feel EXACTLY the same way. There are little glitches here and there that I would’ve changed but nothing major. It’s just that the day went by WAYYYY WAYYYY TOO FAST……and I just wish I could have made the overall day longer to be able to take it all in. I def know how you are feeling!

Post # 4
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284 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

Perfectly and absolutely normal (look at how many of us married bees are still hanging about!) I was married in May and am only in the last month finding wedding sites less of a draw. Getting your pro pics and albums done will help, and the little irritations will fade, I promise! You’ll see, you’ll post this same advice to another bee in 5 or 6 months 🙂

Post # 5
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1629 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

I planned a whole winter wedding in my head after my wedding was over lol.  It’s normal.  Getting the pro-pics helps.  Also staying busy helps.  Pretty normal though.

Post # 7
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7311 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2011 - Bed & Breakfast

The post-wedding blues are very normal. We get these posts at least once a month, so rest assured that you are in good company. 🙂 There’s all of this emotional build-up leading to the wedding, and then we’re expected to go back to “normal” after weeks, months, even years of dreaming and planning and prepping. Sometimes it takes a transition period to make that adjustment. And the good news is that you can channel those energies into other things. The holidays are coming up. Maybe you could do a bit of home decorating for the season, or craft some homemade gifts or plan a holiday party? And don’t forget that you now have time to re-start hobbies that may have fallen by the wayside during wedding crunch time.

Post # 8
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206 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

I wouldn’t say I have the blues, exactly, but I keep switching back and forth between being happy with all the great memories of our day and being sad that it won’t happen again. It was such a great day, and I get kinda sad that I can’t relive it.

But I’ve totally lost interest in wedding blogs, haha. I think looking at them would make me sad, so I’m not even tempted to. I used to read the WB blogs daily, and now I mostly am just on the boards. I just can’t muster the energy to care about the new bloggers, although I’m sure they’re great!

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