(Closed) Post wedding blues, regrets

posted 5 years ago in Emotional
Post # 16
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: August 2015

at least you had an amazing time!  I regret not working on the music because that killed the party in my eyes!  I’d rather have a wonderful wedding with no coverage (just memories) than a medicore one with video

Post # 17
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1133 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2015

legos41015:  100% feel this way, and it’s been just over 3 months now (May 23 bride). We jetted off on a 3 week European honeymoon the day after, and when we got back, I felt so incredibly sad. For me it was that void of not planning a wedding (we planned for 2 years), or those little regrets (not even saying /talking to some of my family) suck.  We hired a videographer who told us today she didn’t get the video so we don’t even have that to look back on now. 

It gets better as the weeks go on and life goes back to normal, and the thing that comforts me is knowing I have a husband who loves me, and we WILL have more memories to make; our first anniversary, our first Christmas as a married couple, etc.

Post # 19
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241 posts
Helper bee

legos41015:  I think it’s pretty normal to feel blue post wedding.  You put all this time and effort into 1 single day – it’s a lot!  I know I felt sad after it was all over…like did I really devote a year of my life planning for 1 single day?  A year later, I still feel nostalgic! There are always things you could have done differently, forgot about, or just didnt like… I think that’s totally human of you to feel that way!  I find that even now, I love talking to people I feel I didn’t spend enough time with (it seriously was a total blur!).  They give me details from their perspective, share things I almost in all cases missed… yes it’s sad I couldn’t see it all, but I love hearing this stuff!  Just focus on the good stuff, and don’t let the negatives get you down.

Post # 22
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Busy bee

legos41015:  Oh yay! Thats so great that you got those pictures ๐Ÿ˜Š

We decided to do a couple of redos after all, just to have some of us. Glad to know it was great and not weird! ๐Ÿ˜Š. We do our’s in a couple weeks, weather permitting 

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