Post # 1
So several coworkers and I went to a Destination Wedding for our other coworker (the bride) in Oregon. It wasn’t a typical wedding but it was just BEAUTIFUL. There were a few kinks. Some of the guests didn’t have seats because too many people were invited. The food was good for us but not for the vegetarians. So about a month after the wedding occurred the bride & groom decided to host a small dinner for the coworkers who traveled to see their wedding.
This is where it gets nasty.
One of the superiors of the bride just kinda went berserk and told the bride all the things that went wrong with the wedding. She said that the brides family, who hosted the WHOLE entire wedding, was inconsiderate of the grooms side just because they paid. She said the food was horrible. It was hot and that she really never liked the groom. ALL TO HER FACE!! I just about wanted to die. The bride started bawling and so we thought we’d call it a night and the rest of us decided to hurry up and pay to break up the party………. can you believe it?
Seriously, the nerve of some people!! They have the honor of being invited and have the gall to say all of this to the bride to taint the memory of their big day. I thought after the wedding the wedding drama would end but this little incident has shown me that things can still come up afterwards….
Sigh….. I just needed to vent. Imagine how much the bride would like to vent? oh goodness.
Post # 3
Oh, how very very sad for that bride! I can’t believe that someone would choose to spoil her memories. 🙁
Post # 4
That’s so terrible! I wish that she could go to an even higher superviser but b/c the wedding was held outside of work and this superviser was invited, I don’t think there’s much to be done.
Post # 5
Ugh, some people are so inconsiderate. I’m a firm believer that if you don’t like something you should keep your mouth shut. That poor bride. 🙁
Post # 6
That really just makes me mad, I am right along with you. They had the incredible honor of being invited to a wedding that they originally didn’t even have to go to, and all they can do is spit on it, and create possibly bad memories or feelings for the bride. I hope that she will recover from that, because that shouldn’t have happened at all. Unfortunately, there is always going to be miserable people in this world and they will always wind up saying things just in spite of others. I am so sorry!
Post # 7
Oh my gosh that’s just awful! Why would anyone do that?! And then to have to look each other in the eye every day at work?! I think I would change jobs after something like that. Poor girl. I’m glad you and the other sensible people at the table cut things off before anything got any worse (although I don’t want to know how much worse it could get!). That is so terrible and sad.
Post # 8
She sounds like one of those a-holes who tries to cover it up with that whole “I’m just being honest…” attitude.
What a C-U-Next-Tuesday.
Post # 9
Wow that sucks! Poor bride and imagine she works with this person…I’d quit just to avoid seeing the supervisor!
You know I thought drama was only up until the BIG DAY, but drama actually happened for me when I got back from our DW! One of the hubby’s cousin was so pissed and upset that she wasn’t invited and blasted us on Facebook! I think she saw all the pictures of how much fun we had and made everyone feel bad for having a great time wihtout her. She even made the hubby’s mom feel guilty by crying and saying “why wasn’t I invited!?!” Mind you this chic is grown (older than me)!
It just ever ends!
Post # 10
That’s terrible! I can’t imagine what she’s going through. I wouldn’t be able to work with someone like that.