Post # 1
I know that’s it’s normal to have nightmares about your wedding BEFORE it happens.
The past week or so, though, I’ve found myself having a recurring nightmare about a wedding that we didn’t have, in a venue that we didn’t have our wedding at, in a state we didn’t get married in. In my nightmare, the venue we keep trying to get married at is flooded, and we keep wading through rising water to get down the aisle. I wake up right before the water covers my mouth, and feel my wedding band and remember that our actual wedding was gorgeous and definitely not flooded.
Has anyone else had post wedding nightmares?
Post # 3
Ha!! I’m so glad you posted this!!
A year after our wedding (last week) I had a nightmare that we had to ‘redo’ the wedding all over again b/c my dad wanted to invite more of HIS friends/family. I was getting ready and my aunty dropped off clothes for me to try on. I tried to change but then realized I was going to be very late to get ready for the wedding if I finished. So I started changing into my gown and put up my hair but nobody was around to help. I couldn’t find my bouquet, and when I did it was all smashed up. More ugly messes proceeded to happen…
The worst part is that I finally walked outside and remembered that my ex would be there as a stand in for the groom and I said, OH NO, am I going to have to start the wedding with him until Darling Husband shows up? Then my ex walked up and said NO i’m going to leave, he casually hugged me and then Darling Husband showed up and walked with me the rest of the way. I was very late, sweaty, sloppy and walking up to the whole wedding shindig distressed. Then I woke up.
Wow, it really put things into perspective and I was so glad I had the awesome wedding I did havein real life (with snags but not a disaster like in my dream). And I’m so glad I married the RIGHT man!! 🙂 I wonder what our dreams mean!!! Doesn’t it make you glad to have the wedding you did have? 🙂
Post # 4
- Wedding: October 2010 - The Pearl S. Buck House
Yes!! I had wedding semi-nightmares all week during our honeymoon. What the heck? Lay off, subconscious, and let us enjoy married life! 🙂
Post # 5
Yes! I know I’ve been dreaming about the wedding WAY more than I did during any of the planning. I wake up knowing I’ve been dreaming about my dress, the ceremony…etc…
I hate to admit it but I think I have a case of post wedding depression. *sad face*
Post # 6
I have had these dreams as well. Everything with my wedding went perfectly so I don’t know why I am still freaking out about it, lol.
Post # 7
I had one where the guys ended up with purple tuxes and jackets that were calf length and “pimp” hats. When I woke up (still at night) I thought “I’ll have to remind Brad to double check the tux order.” That morning I realized that I was being dumb . . . because we’d gotten married 3 weeks earlier!
Post # 8
Our wedding night, I was fast asleep and woke up at 4am with a panic attack because I was sure I had forgotten to pick up my dress, and it was still at the shop, a hour from my house!
I was so panicked when I first woke up I almost got out of bed and was thinking “how will I get my dress, is it too late???!!”, then sat there for a good couple of minutes and was like “wait a second….I AM married already!!!!” heehee
Post # 9
Oh, I’m so glad it’s not just me! My husband thinks I’m nuts! (Granted, he also thinks it’s nuts to dream about the wedding BEFORE it happens…silly man).
Post # 10
I’ve had a couple of weird wedding nightmares lately, but of course I can’t remember any of them now! Anyway, glad I’m not the only one!