(Closed) Post Wedding Regrets – Help me let go! (longish)

posted 12 years ago in Married Life
Post # 17
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74 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

snmcdowell, I want to say thanks for that radio tip!  It is probably the most helpful thing for all of us newlywed brides that are going through the regrets.  My wedding coordinator messed up on my wedding and I have been so tormented but I was looking around to see how others handled their regrets so that I could learn from it.

Your tip is just perfect.

Post # 18
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1830 posts
Buzzing bee

Your picture looks beautiful but I know after stressing about so many details for so long you notice everything.  If it makes you feel better, I popped the hook off the back of my dress while I was dancing.  I really wanted the top to be tight since it was a strapless and didn’t want to fall out but when this button popped, well it was still fine but it was much looser than I wanted. 

My husband just says no one wants to hear stories about how everything went perfectly, it makes for boring stories, so it just gives you more to talk and laugh about over a glass of wine. 

Post # 19
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25 posts
Newbee
  • Wedding: October 2009

It will take time but the good stuff will definitely surpass all the little things that went wrong.  I’m very type A and tend to obsess over things that go wrong.  It took me a couple of months but when I think of my wedding now, I really loved everything about it.  But the first month or two after the wedding, I would make lists of everything I didn’t like and repeat things to my husband over and over again haha. 

What really helps too is when my friends would randomly comment or compliment my wedding details.  My girl friend just complimented me again this past weekend and my wedding was back in October hehe.

And you looked gorgeous!!

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