Post # 1
I’ve had two so far. They aren’t horribly scary like real nightmares, but they will just be about little things going wrong on the wedding day, but they still leave me waking up and feeling “thank goodness that wasn’t real!” I’ve heard that a couple of my other engaged friends have this phenomenon.
Post your dreams here! Do they have a common theme? Do you think it reflects your mindset or are they totally random?
Here’s the one of mine that I can remember –
It’s 10 minutes until the ceremony and my bridesmaids and I are frantically searching for dresses in rack. They both find blue dresses they want to wear, and for some reason, I am searching for a blue dress too. The only one left is not one I really want, but I put it on anyway. At this point, we are informed that the ceremony is starting and we need to go. Then I freak out because I don’t have my something borrowed, something old, etc. So we are scrounging like crazy, and I’m putting all of these ugly things on, but I feel I absolutely HAVE to have them because it’s the rule. Then I walk in 20 minutes late to my own ceremony and all of the guests are mad, and I feel sad because I didn’t get all the crafts I wanted done.
I told Fiance about this dream, and he laughed and laughed because it 100% reflects how I am feeling right now (a little over month out.) At least this dream doesn’t take a lot of analyzing of details. It’s pretty obvious that I feel pressed for time (although I’m so excited for the day to come!) That being said, I need to go utilize my time off now by doing more wedding crafts!!!!!!!!!! (I should have never ever started looking at DIY sites. Now there are too many things that I will just die if I don’t do,hahahahaha)
Post # 3
I had a dream about my flowers. That they weren’t done and at the last minute right before walking down the isle we are trying to throw them together. And no one has any flowers except for me and i’m crying cuz it looks horriable. I am just freaking out. My aunt is doing them with our help, and she has a shop that we need to organize and rearrange first( love my aunt she is very creative but one of the most unorganized people I know). I know we have 5 months but I am an organized person/control freak and if I could have my way everything would already be done because I can’t stand things being unfinished.
Post # 4
I had a dream that none of my bridesmaids dresses were order. So my bridesmaids were asking me, what am I supposed to wear??? We had to go find 3 dresses that were the same in colour and hoped that they fit! I had another dream where no one showed up for the wedding.
Post # 5
I had a dream just last night that my wedding was tomorrow and that I had completely forgotten about it. In my dream the biggest thing I was worried about was that I hadn’t scheduled a hair appointment. Somehow it didn’t matter that nothing else was taken care of (which in real life it is). I woke up in a panic thinking I had to get all these things done TODAY!
Good thing it was just a dream!
Post # 6
My newest dream was the worst one so far. I dreamt that we got to reception hall and it was under contruction for no reason, somehow i wanted balloon pillars (no not in real life) and some friends of ours decided to craft them durning reception, our wedding colors are ivory purple and blue and someone had order NEON pink and red chair covers. I got so made when i saw the reception and everything going wrong…that I left and I broke a glass light outside haha. Then to make matters worst- Fiance and Father-In-Law decided to take me to a flea market to get my mind off reception and he ate the cold food they were selling there- while we waited to go back to reception. OH and all of our guests were unrecongizable people haha.
Post # 7
Haha! Great thread. My first wedding nightmare was that a.) there was absolutely nothing decorated and no flowers, b.) my fiance had a cranky look on his face as he walked down the aisle, c.) there was NO music, d.) and e.) my photographer (who was male in the dream but I’m prob going with two female friends) was late and shoved me out of the way to sit in his seat as I was walking down the aisle. Oh, and my dress was so poorly constructed it was falling off! I woke up, took a deep breath and laughed!
Post # 8
I have dreams where everyone is there and waiting, but we don’t have an officiant or chairs… or food… or a photographer or music or anything. And I’m watching out the window as everyone is pacing around on the lawn and waiting and I don’t want to come out..
I also have dreams where I don’t have a hairdresser so I have to just put my hair up in a ponytail (because I don’t know how to do my own hair).
My wedding nightmares are always about what would happen if things just don’t get done in time
Post # 9
I’ve only had one so far, but I expect them to pick up as the wedding gets closer…
In my dream, I woke up super late the day of & had to race to the ceremony site in my nightclothes (the usual- one FI’s old tshirts & flannel pants, plus a haphazard ponytail to boot). Everyone was standing there all dressed up waiting on me- they kept telling me how beautiful I looked, like I wasn’t dressed for bed! Fiance found this very amusing.
Post # 10
I dreamt that my dress came in and it wasn’t at all what I had ordered that it was mermaid and I hate mermaid. It was scary. Dress still not in yet, so it could come true. :/
Post # 11
I’ve had 3 I can remember
1) It was time for the bible readings, and no one knew who was supposed to read. I told my sister to do it, but she didn’t know what to read. If scrounged up a program, opened it, and it was all messed up, and I started screaming right there in church in front of everyone, dropping the F bomb over and over.
2) I dreamed that NO ONE on my side showed up, and only 15 people on FI’s side. I was looking around the reception hall at all the empty tables, so sad because we had spent so much money and no one had come.
3) Most recent one, Fiance decided to leave after the ceremony to go partying with his friends. And the craziest part is, I didnt even mind.
Fiance had a dream that he didnt go to the wedding. We still got married but he just wasnt there. Ha ha!
The closer I get the more I fear these dreams will multiply!! Less than 5 weeks to go, ack!!