- 5 years ago
- Wedding: October 2013
I need some help. My fiance and I have been engaged for almost a year, have bought a new house and have been living together since last September, and are getting married this October. I love my fiance, but I’m feeling very ambivalent about the wedding right now and have even considered postponing it. The house projects have kind of taken over and our house has become the “other woman”. I know that sounds silly, but I am starting to feel neglected and lonely. My fiance is a wonderful person and I appreciate all of his hard work, but I don’t want our lives to always be about the house. I feel like he thinks about and cares much more for the house than he does for me sometimes. It’s great that he can do lots of things, but I don’t feel like I am needed or even wanted. I also feel some days like I have settled for something that might not be the best choice. I am not really excited about the wedding right now. I have gained weight. I am just unhappy. Shouldn’t this be the best time in our lives? Has anyone out there ever felt this way? Has anyone postponed their wedding? I really don’t want to hurt my fiance, but I don’t want to regret anything either. How do you ever know if you are making the right choice?