- 5 years ago
My present Bo and I secretly got engaged this past November. We bought rings and were planning a suare to announce the engagement. I found the Bo was not as excited as I was and kept telling me there was no rush to get married. After receiving confirmation that our rings couldnot be sized, I gave him the out. I said thankfully the rings could not be sized and he could return them for a full credit. I said there was no rush to get married. He sat there in silence. No questions or concerns. I am saddened to realize that I had once again let my dreams get the best of me. I was married once before and I know how it feels to be married to the wrong person. I am not saying my Bo is wrong for me. I think that rushing into marriage is a bad decision all around. And if he is not ready for the committment, pushing him to say “I Do” is not good either. Enjoy what you have in the present. What is meant for you will come in due time.