- 5 years ago
- Wedding: April 2016
My fiancé and I have never had an “easy” relationship, but we love each other very much and the good times outweigh the bad. He is honestly my best friend, and I would rather spend time with him more than anyone else. However, 3 months before our wedding he got cold feet and said we should postpone the wedding. I was blindsdied and very hurt. We went to counseling for 2 months which seemed to help, but then we moved to a new state and stopped going. Now 3 months out from our rescheduled wedding my family confronted me saying they still have reservations about our relationship and don’t think we should get married in April. Their words gave me pause, and I’ve basically been going crazy with anxiety and uncertainty. I feel like we might have rescheduled the wedding too soon and still have things we need to work through. I also plan on going to counseling independently to address my feelings. We decided tonight to give it more time and postpone the wedding again. If we do decide to eventually get married I think we’ll end up eloping or having just immediate family. I haven’t told anyone yet, and I’m really dreading it. I feel so embarrassed, and I know some family will have to cancel their plans yet again…
- This topic was modified 4 years, 10 months ago by missao.