- 8 years ago
Exactly. Why do random people on a message board feel they know someone’s deeply personal and intimate relationship better than the ones in it? If someone is fine waiting indefinitely, then good, go for it. Some of us are not and find ourselves in the position otherwise and perhaps with a man who needs that to be explained very clearly. OP wasn’t asking for anyone’s opinions on that and frankly, she seems to have a man in her life who is on board with everything.
This is a *Waiting* message board after all, why is it so surprising to some posters that for some women a proposal and marriage is very important?