(Closed) Postponing the wedding…

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
46606 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

Give yourslef time to grieve the change in plans. It’s ok to be sad right now.

After a period of time you will move on in your life and soon start planning again.

The important  thing is that you are with the one you love.

Post # 4
827 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

I know it sucks, but you’re making the right decision.  And now sooo much time to plan!! I’m sorry though 🙁  And I’m sure now you can find an even more AWESOME wedding date…one that will be better than 6-30-12.  If it makes you feel any better, I am a total numbers person, and I reallllly only love even numbers, but yet, I’m getting married on 8-27-2011.  27 and 2011…..not even.

Post # 5
2394 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2010


It sounds like the two of you are making a mature, thoughtful decision.

And it will be here before you know it, and all the better for the extra time spent saving.

Post # 6
3866 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

@Gingersnap: awwww, I’m sorry to hear it’s being pushed back a year!!!  But at least the reasons are good reasons!!!  

It’ll give you PLENTY of time to do all the DIY you could possibly want, too!!!  

Post # 7
762 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

@Gingersnap: So sorry to hear that you had to postpone. However,  Kudos to you both for being smart about thinking it through and realizing that it will be better in the long run. You will both be in a better place financially, and will be able to plan the wedding of your dreams, and go on a honeymoon. I think you two are doing the right thing. You may be sad now, but when you are married and look back, you will be happy you made the decision you did.  Best of luck to you both:)

Post # 8
9029 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

Time flies at first June 2011 seemed so far away, and now here it is a few weeks away. 2013 will be here b4 u know it and you’ll be wondering where all the time went

Post # 9
2522 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

This happened to us.  Ask me how I feel on May 13th (a week from now and our original wedding date).  Our programs in school got extended a year, car problems+private student loan came due, and private health insurance was just too expensive for us to get married.  I totally understand the frustration.  For now, we have dates in mind but aren’t sharing until it’s set it stone b/c the hurt of having to tell people over again is too much for me.  Many hugs to you and your Fiance!

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