Post # 1
Everything seemed to be going great until a month before the wedding. I feel dead inside. I’m not much of a planner, the one thing I decide to plan myself just came crumbling down from one day to the next. We should’ve been getting married on this Friday but we have to push for another, the sad thing is that he doesn’t know when he will be able to get time off, again. I am so disappointed and very upset that I don’t want to see or talk to anyone, it seems as though the wedding excitement went away, especially when my mom keeps asking me to sell everything that has been bought. She tends to forget that we are only postponing the wedding and not calling it off; she then makes certain comments. I am extremely disappointed. Ugh =( I make myself strong in front of everyone!
Post # 3
Stay strong! I am in a smiliar boat. Two months ago, Fiance decided he wasn’t quite ready to get married (maybe not even to me at all) in May. I was absolutely devestated. After several talks, we decided to stay together and engaged for the time being, and just post pone indefinately. I was initally very sad. Then I was extremely angry because I had put so much of my own money into the wedding (FI goes to school still, so not him) as well as the money his parents had lost on the caterer deposit we had booked literally three weeks prior, and the bridal shower invites that went out the week before. Now, I’m starting to get over it, At least I don’t have the urge to cry everyday. Anywayssssssssss. Getting back to you! While our reasons behind “postponement” are different, I feel the same way. In fact, FI’s grandparents sent us a letter stating how disappointed they were that two people so in love couldn’t work things out. Obviously, Fi’s mom did not fully explain to everyone. The worst though, is when you meet new people, and they are like “oh, your engaged, when’s the big day??” and you put on a smile and say “haven’t set a date yet” when in reality, you’ve planned a whole wedding already. As well as other girls who are also getting married and getting the pity from them.
Things are better now, but I’m still unsure about the future. Chances are we won’t get married til Fiance is out of grad school in 2 years. UGH
Good luck and keep thinking positive!
Post # 4
I wonder what the OP did … it’s been four months …
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Post # 6
I think she might be married now as I saw another post from a couple of weeks ago talking about her husband, unless I got it wrong.