(Closed) Posts on facebook saying my bridesmaid was prettier than me (the bride)

posted 6 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 122
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613 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

@Loonawedding:  +1 As Loona said, your bridesmaids are beautiful but there is not comparison to you! 

 

@whitefuzzy:  I’m so sorry. People are so ignorant and down right rude sometimes. The comments were just uncalled for. Try not to allow people like that get you down. You were gorgeous! xoxo

Post # 123
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470 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2014

Umm, I just looked at the pics, and you’re the prettiest. With or without the wedding dress. 

Post # 124
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2089 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

@whitefuzzy:  Are you kidding me?!? I’ve just had a look at your pro pics and you look STUNNING! If I look half as good as you on my wedding day I’ll be a happy lady! Clearly they are jealous. Ignore them. 

Post # 125
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528 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2015

@whitefuzzy:  Woah, sounds like they’re just being catty for the sake of it! Bored women making stupid conversation, I wouldn’t belive it.

And UM just seen the pic you posted- you look incredible! You definitely outshine your bridesmaids. What I said above definitely still stands.

Post # 126
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11482 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: May 2009

I can envision a scenario on FB where your bridesmaids were tagged in your photographs and these pictures were immediately viewed by people on your bridesmaids’ FB friends lists who may not even know YOU. Some people who are not all that familiar with how FB works (especially if they have very restricted settings on their own pages) may incorrectly presume that anyone who is not on their own friends lists can even see what they write. This could be a case of some well-meaning but terribly clueless friends or relatives of the bridesmaid in question who simply were trying to show their enthusiasm for how wonderful they thought their own friend or family member looked, not ever realizing that the bride would be able to the see those comments and could be hurt by them. I really hope that is all it was. The alternative — that these individuals were deliberately trying to hurt you for whatever reason — is not a nice one to have to consider.

 

Regardless, you are beautiful!

 

Post # 127
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18 posts
Newbee
  • Wedding: September 2014

“Don’t let people’s compliments get to your head and don’t let their criticism get to your heart.”


I’m a quote person, and this one I recently read sums it up. The person who made that Facebook comment is obviously insecure with themself. Everyone has their own individual beauty, which includes modesty, tact, and kindness; the poster is lacking some or all of these traits. 

 

Smile big, remember you are loved, and don’t let that envious chick see you sweat!

Post # 128
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1585 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

@whitefuzzy:  Eh, screw them. For my bachelorette party, someone posted pictures and tagged everyone and someone replied “you’re the prettiest girl by far” to one of my friends who went with me. It annoyed me a little until I remembered that the person seeing the comments doesn’t know me and was just trying to be nice to the person they DID know.

 

If they know you as well though, they really ought to take a class in proper online behavior.

Post # 129
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3638 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2015

I am being 100% honest and if I couldn’t be 100% honest then I would not have written in this thread. I looked up your pro photos and you are BEAUTIFUL. You looked amazing that day and honestly (and I know that this is kind of mean) I have no clue as to which bridesmaid they think looked better, NO clue. 

Post # 130
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815 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

I just have to add to the list of people who disagree with them.  Whoever posted that is on crack.  1. Because if somehow it was true, that’s just not something a decent person does or says.  And 2. You really are the most beautiful girl in those pictures!! You are just genuinely a very pretty girl.  I hope seeing all these posts helps you to realize that.

And I have to add that your dog is the cutest thing ever.  I just adore him in your pictures, especially the one where he’s in the middle of the guys.  OMG!!!

Post # 131
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80 posts
Worker bee

@whitefuzzy:  I’m sorry but WHICH BRIDESMAID??? You are by far the most gorgeous out of all of them!!! I’m sorry this happened, my heart sank when I read your post but please just know you are absolutely stunning and none of them hold a candle to you!!! *huge hugs*

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