(Closed) Prank Proposal..I would be devastated!!

posted 4 years ago in Relationships
  • poll: Is this funny?
    Hell no!! Dude is a douche and she needs to seriously reconsider their relationship. : (64 votes)
    82 %
    Yes its funny, I'm not sure why people are in an uproar!! : (0 votes)
    Not really, but maybe it could have been worked out if he hadn't posted it on social media. : (13 votes)
    17 %
    Unsure!! : (1 votes)
    1 %
  • Post # 2
    Member
    2680 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: September 2014

    I wonder if she was in on it? I’m always skepticAl of these kinds of videos. I’m tired of attention whores looking for their 15 mins of social media fame. Anyway, if she wasn’t in on it, and if she has any self respect, she should kick his dumb ass to the curb. 

    Post # 4
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    827 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: October 2014

    Mrs.MilitaryBee:  Did they stay together?

    Sharing the video (when you’re wearing revealing pyjamas as well!!!) would be the ultimate betrayal for me. He looks like the immature laddy type  who did it for his friends down the pub…poor girl!

    Post # 5
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    1608 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: August 2017

    I saw this earlier and wanted to cry for that poor girl. That prank is NOT funny and it would’ve created huge issues between us if my Fiance had done this

    Post # 6
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    167 posts
    Blushing bee

    My ex once fake proposed to me on our anniversary, at a gorgeous restaurant. Then he looked at me, burst out laughing, and said “Yea right, like I’d ever do that”

    True story.

    Post # 7
    Hostess
    4036 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: December 2016

    That is just plain mean.  It would have been hard not to kick him in the balls while he was down there.  This would be hard to come back from for me…but then again, I wouldn’t date the kind of guy who thought being mean was funny.  

    Post # 8
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    1344 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: December 2019

    I guess it can depend on how good your sense of humor is, but me personally? I would be extremely upset. I’m pretty upfront with my past failed engagement and wedding, and if my SO pulled that kind of stunt while knowing that then it would be pretty damn unforgiveable.

    What boils my blood is that I’m sure there are some people who think this is okay but would change their tune if the roles were reversed.

    Post # 9
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    3611 posts
    Sugar bee

    What a jerk…ugh, I would have dumped him by now. Also, doing this in the first place was already out of line, but it’s even farther out of line that he’s posting a video of her in her underwear. Not that she looks bad or anything, but I’d be pissed about that too if I were her.

    Post # 10
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    7430 posts
    Busy Beekeeper
    • Wedding: February 2013

    I don’t know how a relationship survives that, especially since they’ve only been together for 6 months. Cut your losses and run!

    Post # 11
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    3091 posts
    Sugar bee

    I would have twisted his nuts into a pretzel.

     

    Post # 12
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    329 posts
    Helper bee

    I wouldn’t have found this kind of thing funny. Where’s this relationship going if getting married is a joke? 

    Not sure if it’s a smart idea to ask me to make you something to consume after that kind of prank either. You want tea? Pretty brave to drink something I prepare for you after that stunt, but I guess we like living dangerously. 

    Post # 13
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    2871 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: November 2015

    Would have kicked him in the balls and walked away forever. 

    Post # 14
    Member
    6673 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: June 2015

    If this had been done to me very early in a relationship, I would have cracked up (aside from the social media aspect, which is out of line).  My husband made me a ring with play-doh at a cousin’s wedding and that amused us.  

    But if it was later on, when I was expecting a proposal and starting to feel resentment at the delay? He’d have been dead to me for showing zero empathy during what was a tough time.  It would have told me exactly what I needed to know about what was taking so long in the first place.  No respect, no understanding, no consideration of my feelings at all.

    Social media?  Dead to me either way, but my guy doesn’t like that stuff anyway, so not a problem.

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