(Closed) Pre-Marital counseling

posted 6 years ago in Relationships
Post # 4
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2281 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

If she denies you marriage for any reason whatsoever, you should go somewhere else!

Our pre-marital counseling was really great. We loved it. My pastor had us do the Prepare/Enrich questionnaire online and then when he got the results he went over them with us. It was about compatibility and communication, and nothing else. Just a chance to talk about how our different family dynamics might create gaps in our communication and ways we might work through that. A good experience all around.

I don’t think anyone has the right to ask you about intimacy, no matter who they are.

Post # 5
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171 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

No way! This is not the 50’s. The only time I’ve ever heard of that being a problem is with catholic or maybe southern baptist. Our church is letting us choose whether to do premarital counseling with them or someone else, but surely they cant REFUSE to marry you if you’d had sex! IF they do, go somewhere else! You should feel comfortable with your officiant.

Post # 6
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5428 posts
Bee Keeper

What good is it to go through the pre-marital counselling if you are afraid to be honest? I would go somewhere else RIGHT NOW!

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