(Closed) preemptive strike. (am I a jerk for this??)

posted 7 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
2459 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2010

Your not a jerk at all, I think it is a good idea. At the end of the day if he goes to your friend she will be able to lead him in the right direction, and if he doesn’t then only you and your friend know, and I’m sure she wont/doesn’t mind. ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 4
2091 posts
Buzzing bee

Not super shadey at all, if you hunt around a bit on here you’ll see that many many girls did the same thing and also even sent pictures straight to their guys! ๐Ÿ™‚ It’s sort of normal now, you know?

Congrats on things going so well!! I’m excited for you!

Post # 6
2523 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

I think this makes you awesome.

Post # 7
2893 posts
Sugar bee

Throwing your guy a bone and helping him figure out what exactly your tastes are (not always the easiest task) isn’t being jerky. It’s being smart. This is a huge purchase for him and I’m sure he wants to get you something that will make you truly happy, not something you’ll have to pretend to be happy about. Hope he picks something wonderful. And props to you. ๐Ÿ™‚

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