- 4 years ago
- Wedding: June 2013
My pregnant SINL is due a week before my wedding and thinks its ok (her mother as well) to come to my wedding and possibly go into labor. I know this may sound selfish but… seriously!!!?!!!??! Its just been a long line of frustrations with her. I have been dating my fh for 4 years now, 3 when we got engaged, and she got engage 6 months before me and after only dating her guy for 4-5 months only then to break off the engagement for around 4 months to be re-engaged I am pretty sure because they found out they were pregnant. We had to change our wedding date because she decided that she needed to use our date. We then found out she was pregnant and due around our wedding date after we choose our new date and put the deposit down already. Oh, and her ring she got the second time around she was engaged looks eerily like mine. I know she could just be trying to ‘keep up’ with her older brother but it just keeps building.
How do I tell her and possibly her mother it is not ok to come to my wedding pregnant to the point of going into labour or to come to our wedding with a week old child! There are no children below eight allowed at the reception and I just having a feeling she will want to break that rule and steal my day if she can.
Frustrations are just mounting. Help!