Post # 1
hi bees! another inquiry: my fiance and i plan on trying to have babies shortly after we get married…this would make me about 5-6 months pregnant for a wedding that i am a bridesmaid in…i have asked my friend if it would bother her (i.e. “ruin” any picture ideas or upset her i wasn’t “raging” or anything like that) and she said no not at all, she is only upset i wouldnt be able to drink with her on her wedding day lol, but she is the type of person that is probably too nice to say anyways…has anyone been a pregnant bridesmaid or had a pregnant bridesmaid and did it “ruin” anything? thanks!!!!!
Post # 3
- Wedding: May 2013 - Walt Disney World
My Maid/Matron of Honor called me a few weeks ago to tell me that she and her Darling Husband have been trying to get pregnant for a while now and she wanted to let me know and see if it would bother me. I thought it was honestly too nice of her to ask me about it, but I appreciated it all the same. I would never tell her to stop the baby-making efforts for my wedding. I can imagine there are some people who think that a pregnant bridesmaid “steals the show” because of the fact that they are preggo, or that pics won’t look as nice, but I think that’s a bunch bull and that the people who think that are really just generally self-centered and using the fact as an excuse to think that way. I think it was nice of you to talk to your friend about it, and it was great that she didn’t seem to have a problem with it and leave it at that. If she isn’t divulging all of her thoughts to you, you can’t control it. Just be your happily-married-baby-making self! 🙂
Post # 4
yay best answer ever!! lol, for real that makes me feel a lot better about it, thank you so much!! 🙂