(Closed) pregnancy and sex

posted 6 years ago in Pregnancy
Post # 3
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

Don’t feel bad! You’re body is going through A LOT right now growing a little human! It’s great that your Darling Husband is understanding:) My Darling Husband and I didn’t have sex until the end of the 1st tri b/c I just didn’t feel up to it!

Post # 4
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

@Mrsgurzakovic:  Don’t feel bad its normal.   I went through the same thing as well; your body is going through a ton.  I wasn’t as sick really, but I was absolutely exhausted; come home from work and take a nap tired lol.     Once you get through this you will get back to feeling like you want to have sex and it will be great!  It’s awesome how understanding your Darling Husband is; you need it.    Hang in there; it will get easier!   Good Luck and CONGRATS!

Post # 5
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

I’m 32 weeks and I can probably count on one hand the number of times we’ve had sex during my pregnancy. Most of the time, I’m just not in the mood at all, and even when I am, I’m still too tired to make much of an effort. Darling Husband has pretty much given up on initiating at this point so we just don’t do it.

He’s understanding about it, at least. I figure the 6 weeks+ of no sex postpartum will seem like no big thing to us.

Post # 6
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

We haven’t had sex in over a month, I just haven’t felt up to it!  I’ll be 11 weeks on Sunday, and I’m just now finally starting to feel horny again.

Post # 7
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

I did not go through this until after I delivered. Even though I had a cesarean it still really hurt down there. So on top of the 6 weeks period…I think we went about 8 weeks without intercourse and 10 weeks until I was actually able to tolerate it. He was very understanding the entire time, but yes it was irritating and I felt pretty bad. Good thing we have such great men!

Post # 8
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

@Mrsgurzakovic:  I’m almost 16 weeks pregnant and Darling Husband and I have had sex probably 5 times throughout this pregnancy. Don’t feel bad.

Post # 9
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

This is me and I am almost 7 weeks.   Nothing. I am so sick all the time. Especially at night and in the morning.

I actually want it, but am just to sick! I am hoping as soon as the sickness passes.

Post # 10
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

I wouldn’t worry about it, if you’re not feeling sick you’ll be tired, or bloated or feel huge etc… the list goes on.

We probably only average once a week-biweekly and it’s almost 100% on weekends because it’s the only time I get decent sleep and feel rested.

Post # 11
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

We used to DTD 3-4 times a week, but lately he’s lucky if I feel like it once a week. I’m naseous, constipated and tired. It’s not really a priority. He’s been super good about it though.

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