Pregnancy or just PMS?

posted 3 years ago in Pregnancy
Post # 16
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Newbee

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ColoradoGirl :  We usually ALWAYS use protection, i insist on it! But its just.. sometimes you want to try it, even if its for a few seconds.. and i chart my cycles. They used to be regular, but now i cant know when im ovulating or when its supposed to come..

Post # 17
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Busy Beekeeper

There’s almost zero chance you’re pregnant if he only slipped it in for a few seconds and did not ejaculate inside of you. I know this isn’t what they tell you in sex ed, but seriously, the odds are insanely low.

Put yourself out of your misery and buy a test. 

And stop having unprotected sex even for 2 seconds if the idea of pregnancy makes you this anxious that you can’t even bring yourself buy a test. There’s no excuse.

Post # 18
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norealname :  Considering your struggle with anxiety that should be enough to resist unprotected sex going forward. This is not a “hateful” comment but real talk. You need to take care of yourself.  First step go get a pregnancy test ASAP.

Post # 19
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tiffanybruiser :  thank you! Im still trying to force myself buy one or two tests, just to be sure

Post # 20
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

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norealname :  If you can’t handle the risk, you should resist any urge to have unprotected sex, especially if you can’t tell when you are ovulating. The thrill of “trying it” doesn’t out-weigh the possibility of being pregnant.  

Post # 21
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

If your period is “late” every month you probably aren’t charting properly.

Post # 22
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Newbee

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saratiara2 :  no, i am, i have a calendar with me and i always write down when my period has started. And now it’s definitely late.

Post # 23
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

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norealname :  …writing down when your period came isn’t charting. 

Post # 24
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Buzzing bee
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saratiara2 :  is correct. Writing it down is definitely not charting. 

I would go see your doctor for some more sex education, Charting etc.

And if buying a test causes you to have a panic attack then having any kind of unprotected sex is irresponsible. You know better than that! 

Post # 25
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Newbee

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thumperbear :  well i bought two tests. I will try one of them tonight and the other one a few days from today

Post # 26
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Newbee

Guys, i did one test. It was negative. But the things is, it said if i have irregular periods, i should do the test 18 days from da date i could have gotten pregnant. And im on day 11… Do you think there’s still a chance? And by the way, the tests weren’t cheap and i know they are good

Post # 27
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2013

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norealname :  I would say give it until 2/12 or 2/13 and if it’s negative then you are not pregnant (unless you’ve been having sex in the meantime, I meant even using condoms has a small risk).  And By The Way, you can go to the $1 store and pick up some pregnancy tests for $1 each.  And you said 1/24 you had sex so today is 13 days from the date not 11…

Post # 28
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: September 2017

I think its very, very unlikely you are pregnant.  But to put your mind at ease wait until day number 18 and test again.

Post # 29
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kes18 :  yeah, i will try again in a few days. And, oh my god, im such a moron, yes, it has been 13 days, not 11. Totally my bad

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j9marie :  Will do. Even though it came out negative, im still scared, so i’ll wait till the end of the week and i’ll test again

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