Post # 1
I recently had a pregnancy scare where approximately 5 days after my period ended where my boyfriend and i having fun. Just to clarify no penetration was involved (i’m still a virgin) but my main fear was the fact we were both naked and i was sitting on top of him. He also did not ejaculate at all. From this incident, i have been stressed for the past few months about pregnancy occuring, even though i have gotten my period 4 times since as well as gotten an ultrasound from the doctors (something was playing up in my reproductive system) and there were no signs of anything wrong with me. I also took a urine test about 17 days after the incident occured and it was negative. However i am still stressed that i may be pregnant due to hearing so many stories about people who have been pregnant without knowing (cryptic pregnancy). I just want to know if anyone else has gotten pregnant wihtout penetration. Even with all my evidence, once i get a little bloated it triggers my mind into thinking i’m pregnant as it is a ‘baby bump’.
Post # 2
…….No. You’re not pregnant.
Have your doctor run blood work, if you don’t believe the negative tests.
Post # 3
Yeah, there’s no way you are pregnant.
I would suggest reading Taking Charge of Your Fertility. It’s usually recommended on the TTC boards but it’s a great resource for learning how your body works.
Post # 4
If he didn’t ejaculate or penetrate, the chances of you getting pregnant are super slim. Also the fact that you have had your period 4 times and had a u/s should take away the worry.. I would say stop worrying. You’re fine 🙂
Post # 6
EllyAnne : Genuine question as i feel like i am thinking irrationally in this situation.
Post # 7
- Wedding: May 2016 - Sussex, UK
viviena : You are thinking irrationally. You’d be a virgin who is 4 to 5 months pregnant. Talk to your doctor to put your mind at ease.
Post # 8
viviena : This is not a pregnancy scare. You are definitely thinking irrationally here. There was no chance you were pregnant. Then you got your period, so there’s proof you weren’t pregnant. Then you got 3 more periods AND a pelvic ultrasound. What else do you need to convince you you’re not pregnant?
Post # 9
With the chance of this being a troll post… There’s no way you’re pregnant. You’ve had 4 periods and an ultrasound AND there was no penetration AND he didn’t ejaculate. However, are you on birth control? If you’re at the point in your relationship where you’re sitting on him naked then you need to be on some sort of birth control because it just takes one slip up. If you’re this freaked out over a non event, I can’t imagine how you’ll react if there actually is a chance.
Post # 10
Idk, possibly the ultrasound and the pregnancy tests were wrong and your stomach is bloated because you’re pregnant. You should maybe consider prenatal care. You know, for the baby. Have you been taking vitamins? That’s really important.
Post # 11
Get on birth control. Being on it doesnt mean you have to have sex but it will ease your anxiety and maybe help with any issues you are having.
Post # 12
Lol troll. How can pregnancy occur without ejaculation?
Post # 13
Did school stop teaching any kind of sex ed or something these days??
Post # 14
You’re definitely preggers. Congrats!!
Post # 15
This is Jesus telling you to keep your clothes on, young lady!
But seriously. You aren’t pregnant.