(Closed) Pregnancy sucks… and sometimes you just wanna bitch…

posted 6 years ago in Pregnancy
Post # 3
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

@Mrs Hedgehog:  Your post made me giggle. I’m only 5 weeks and feel like my back is going to break in half. I have been so tired and bitchy too! Have a bitch-fest here no one will judge! (:

Post # 4
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Busy Beekeeper

@Mrs Hedgehog:  Hedgie!  I’m out of touch on the TTC boards – but wanted to say YAHOO!  (ok, maybe not for the miserable parts!) ๐Ÿ˜‰  Congratulations to you and the Mr.!

Post # 5
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

@Mrs Hedgehog:  9-11 weeks were my total meltdown periods! All I did was cry because I was so miserable and it felt like it was never going to end.  Then, a few days into my 12th week, I woke up and felt like a whole new person!  I am still insanely tired and have a few sucky symptoms here and there, but the worst is definitely over.

The light at the end of the tunnel is coming soon!  Hang in there!  

ETA: In the meantime, bitch away!

Post # 6
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

I’ve gone through phases.  I have a week or so of being miserable and wanting to complain non stop and then a week where I feel better.  If you’re having a bad day, come post here and get it out!

Post # 7
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2010

Ive been miserable the last couple weeks as well. I got hit with ms right at 10 weeks and now have had all day sickness for the last two and a half weeks.  I’m sure I’m a pill to hang out with. 

Post # 8
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

I was thankful to have a few friends that had been pregnant the year before that I could bitch to all the time, plus my best friend was always willing to listen. Darling Husband got sick of hearing it quickly and while he definitely tried to, he had a real hard time with it. He still says crap that isn’t nice, but I know I’m a pain in the ass and I would do it too.

Does your fellow month thread people post? I complained on mine a bunch and we actually created an FB group to post in. It’s great to just complain, especially with others that are around your due date.

Post # 9
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

i really vented alot to my mom. she was quite understanding… now that i am almost a week past due she hears from me multiple times a day… i think my dh owes her one ๐Ÿ™‚ lol

 

you can vent to us!!! ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 10
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

Its ok, the ladies in my july group are pretty good with helping me when I need to bitch. I think these boards make it clear that most of us are feeling the same thing. While it is sometimes a beautiful thing, pregnancy sucks quite a bit! I told my Fiance sorry the other day and he was so understanding. He told me I didnt have any reason to say I was sorry and that it is not an easy thing to do, growing a baby.

Post # 11
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

@Mrs Hedgehog:  I gotta say that at 5 weeks when I had a bleeding thrush rash all over my ass, I was still all “I am just so HAPPY to be PREGNANT that I don’t even care that my ass is bleeding”! Now, at 15 weeks, having experienced such delights (aside from the ass rash) as severe vomiting and diarrhea that landed me in the hospital for dehydration; migrane that caused vomiting that landed me in the hospital for dehydration; unrelenting constant nausea; horrible food aversions to broad categories of things like soup and chicken and juice; 15 pounds of weight all on my ass and thighs; and still just random throwing up (like 1/2 hour I just spent yakking into my bathroom garbage can for no apparent reason) I feel like I can declare that PREGNANCY SUCKS!

I have no solutions for coping, besides to sort of hysterically laugh sometimes at how ridiculous it is to just like, barf for no reason at all!

Post # 12
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

@MsKeee:  hahaha.  Yessss.  This is it exactly ๐Ÿ™‚

I’m 12 weeks and yesterday I discovered that I’ve sprouted a mustached, developed a rash on my face, dry heaving for no apparent reason and couldn’t sleep because of heart burn.  Then, I had bought a Valentine’s Day card for a younger brother and it was so sentimental (read: not even at all sentimental) I bawled for twenty minutes, which somehow morphed into sad bawling because I couldn’t stop crying, then aggravated bawling and declaring, “I don’t want to do this anyyyyymooooore” as my Fiance looked on, horrified. XD

Post # 13
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

I vent on here but I have 2 friends at work who are pregnant. One due in February and the other in like April or May so we’re able to talk. I also talm to my friend who must had a baby so it helps.

It’s a miracle that there’s a person growing inside of me. It’s a blessing. I t can be really difficult to deal with everything that comes with the miracle. But hearing the heartbeat and seeing my baby grow through ultrsounds makes me forget all about the struggles…. at least until I throw up again.

Post # 14
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Bumble bee

I only felt crap for the first month, then I became this placid docile person who as long as my feet were rubbed was a real sweetie lol…

Post # 15
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Helper bee

just wait until you cant poop for days, cant lie on your back, heartburn 24/7  with very few antacids that are asprin free ( they all suck by the way) and you cant breathe wether or not your are standing sittinbg or laying down. oh wait..it gets even better! theres a moment of sheer bliss, that deflating feeling after you birth, its like you took the biggest poop of your life and instead of fecal matter its a beautiful baby! then…the sore bleeding nipples headaches from crying ,cramping uterus from baby nursing and shrinking, the bleeding, sleeplessness, and then….your milk comes in and your boobs.feel like they are giant rocks ready to explode!

Post # 16
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

A lot of us has been there. This is the perfect place to rant about it, so go for it!

My 1st trimester wasn’t too bad, but I’m struggling through my 3rd. If I’m not crying because I’m tired, I’m bitching about people calling me huge. Oh, and I peed myself tonight. I thought, “gee, I should head off to the bathroom…I gotta go!,” 2 seconds later my boy kicked me in the bladder and I didn’t even make it to the bathroom.  Awesome. Dignity = gone.

Just keep in mind, once you’re done your 9 months, you get to meet the sweetest little gift, your baby. That’s what’s keeping me going.

 

 

 

 

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