- 4 years ago
Please let me start this off by saying that I am in a very happy, trusting, and loving relationship and what I am about to post is honestly to get advice to take back to a friend at dinner tomorrow!!
Heres a short synopsis of what she’s going through. Last year she was dating the love of her llife and beginning of December they broke it off. There was always this other girl, we’ll call her “Amber”. Well Amber was always in the background trying to talk to my friend, “Sam’s”, boyfriend. Well, when they broke up guess who he started hanging out with… Yup, Amber. let me also state that when I say she was in the background, she was always trying to mess with their relationship, creating fake profiles, sending him texts, always trying to sneak her way in. Well, a few weeks ago he contacted Sam and said that all he did was think about her when he was with Amber, he would do anything to have her back… You know the drill. Sam loves him and told him she couldn’t talk to him while he was in a relationship with Amber. This past Saturday he sat Amber down, told her it wasn’t going to work and that he loved Sam. Amber of course went off, said terrible things about Sam to try and persuade him to stay…but he couldn’t because he knew it was unfair.
Well, Monday (2 days after he broke it off) Amber told him she wasn’t feeling well and that she thinks she might be pregnant. (She already has 2 kids so she knows the feeling). Well, yesterday rolls around and she said she was going to take a pregnancy test because her period is supposed to be here this weekend and couldn’t wait. She apparently took the test and it came up “positive” Sam was crushed, so inwent to her place last night to wait on him to get there. Amber went to his house to give him his stuff back and show him the test. Before she got there I told Sam to tell him to make sure he looks at the test, get a name and if you can’t make sure you remember the color of the cap and what the lines looked like.
He he came over and said it was 2 blue lines and a white cap, 100% sure! We good me searched home pregnancy test, pulled up images, and told him to find it… He couldn’t. Then we looked up pregnancy tests to take before missed period, still couldnt find it. So then we googled how to fake a pregnancy test… Do you know there are like 12 ways to do it?? I had NO clue!! Anyway, the last one said to buy an ovulation test, take it while you’re ovulating, and you’ll definitely get two lines!! So we google image search ovulation test and what do you know, first page… A white stock, white cap, two blue lines and it looks JUST like a pregnancy test!! if someone showed that to me I would have thought it was a pregnancy test too!!
sam said she can try and work it out with him if amber is not pregnant but does not think she can if Amber is. SOOOOOO my question to all of my fellow bees is what do you think? Has anything like this ever happened to you?? I know some girls can be crazy but this is insane!! I just need something to take with me to dinner tomorrow because I literally have no advice for her. I know she wants to work it out and I know 100% he does love her and realized he shouldn’t have let her go so easy… But this while pregnancy scare is shocking and I wouldn’t know what to do, which doesn’t help me help her.
Any help or advice would be wonderful. Thank you in advance wonderful bees!!