(Closed) pregnant and scared $hitless

posted 7 years ago in Babies
Post # 3
Member
1664 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

I’m so, so sorry ๐Ÿ™

My inclination is to tell you to talk to a counselor or someone ASAP.  A lot of schools have free counseling services.  Remember, you don’t have to decide anything right now.  You have some time to weigh your options.  Only you know what is right for you.  Don’t let the fact that some bees can’t get pregnany sway you either way. 

Post # 4
Member
9824 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper

I discovered I was pregnant 3 weeks after we decided to get married. We weren’t living together, had no health insurance and were on the “10 year plan” to having kids. I considered adoption as well as terminating my pregnancy. After much soul searching we decided to have the baby.

I can honestly say, it was not easy but we dealt with it together. There were a lot of tears and sacrifice. It’s not the ideal way to begin an already unstable situation, but it can be done. Our daughter has motivated me in ways I never thought possible. She made our life better.

I can only share my personal experience, but for us the struggle was worth it. We aren’t perfect but every day we make it work.

Post # 5
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5148 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

(((hugs)))

 

A wise woman once told me “if you wait until you’re ‘ready’ to have kids, you’ll never have them”.

If you want it to work, it can. Many of our parents and parents and grandparents got through similar situations.

 

My sister got pregnant while in college; and she now has 2 beautiful children she wouldn’t trade for the world! (And yes, she was scared sh!tless as well.)

Post # 6
Hostess
18644 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

This is a duplicate post so I’m going to close it.  If you want to comment, please go here!

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