(Closed) Pregnant Bees…Are you expecting a "push gift" from your hubby?

posted 7 years ago in Pregnancy
  • poll: Are you expecting a "push present" from your hubby?
    Yes : (38 votes)
    19 %
    No : (94 votes)
    48 %
    Doesn't Matter : (25 votes)
    13 %
    What's a Push Present? : (39 votes)
    20 %
  • Post # 62
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    199 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: March 2013

    Didn’t really hear of this concept until recently. I doubt that Dh (Fi at the time of the pregnancy and birth last year) ever heard of it either. Besides, we’re not that high on the income scale.

    Plus, because the EDD was ON his birthday last year, there was a chance that he’d be spending it at the hospital waiting for me to give birth. (However, the kiddo wasn’t born until two days after via an induction…a process that started at six in the morning; I was in labor for 15 hours and 17 minutes.)

    Post # 63
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    1497 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: June 2013

    I have never heard of this. I don’t think I would be thinking about a gift, and I’d probably be wanting to save money for the baby! I can’t really think of anything I would want, either. Though some of the food and drink options bees have mentioned sound good!

    Post # 64
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    53 posts
    Worker bee
    • Wedding: March 2012

    My husband and I have a long running joke that he’s going to buy me a smoker as a push present. Not because we think giving birth really deserves gifts, but because the idea of commemorating the birth of a child with a smoker just is really us (we fell in love over barbeque). We could easily afford one right now and I would love to be able to smoke brisket this summer, but I’m looking at it as the last frivolous thing my husband’s probably going to buy me for a long time and I really want to wait for the special occasion (it will double as my birthday present a week later). We’re also spending a bit more than usual on my husband’s birthday present this year and buying the stereo equipment he’s been eyeing as his last “splurge” before we become parents.

     

    It may sound strange to spend money on “wants” rather than “needs” with a baby on the way, but we know we’re going to have a hard time feeling comfortable buying anything non-essential once the baby arrives. It’s not going to be that we can’t afford things, but more that we’ll always think of a way the money could be better spent.

     

    Just wondering…is it still “mindless consumerism” as one PP put it if it’s a purchase we can totally afford but have put off for years because we wanted to save it for a special occasion?

     

    Post # 65
    Member
    3501 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: March 2002

    all i want is some jimmy johns delivered. asap.

    Post # 66
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    2402 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: August 2012

    Nope. All I really want after is a cold turkey sub and a glass of wine! 

    Post # 67
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    1610 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: June 2012

    I don’t expect one, but I definitely wouldn’t turn one down either.  I don’t know if I would call it a push present because that sounds funny to me for some reason.  

    Post # 68
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    340 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: July 2013

    We are not TTC yet, but i’ve already mentioned what custom jewelry i want for my gift.

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