(Closed) Pregnant bride!?

posted 5 years ago in Pregnancy
  • poll: Would you rather suffer one day being tired but happy or 6 months depressed waiting?
    NOPE you are damn crazy for even thinking about getting pregnant before your wedding! : (57 votes)
    38 %
    Give me one day of tiredness but happy over 6 months of depression any day. : (33 votes)
    22 %
    It is certainly do-able and you will enjoy your wedding but bear in mind you will be tired. : (41 votes)
    28 %
    Depends on how much you want a child. : (18 votes)
    12 %
  • Post # 3
    Member
    5547 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: December 2011

    If you were already planning on it, I don’t see why it would be that bad, especially since there is no certainty you will be pregnant then anyway. 

    Post # 4
    Member
    2515 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: December 2011

    i say keep your original TTC date of october. there’s no guarantee that you’ll get pregnant right away so you might not even show on your wedding day. even if you do show, who cares!? πŸ™‚

    Post # 5
    Hostess
    3369 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: May 2013

    It’s really up to you, but (judging by your avatar) you’re both young, what’s the rush?! πŸ™‚ Being 3-4 months pregnant at your own wedding is a lot more common than you’d think, but it’s up to you both. If you’re ready for a child and you feel that you really can’t wait until March, then go for it.

     

    Keep in mind that 3 weeks in Italy may not be as fun when you’re dealing with morning sickness, food aversions, and fatigue. 

     

    Remember that everything happens for a reason, hon. I had a miscarriage as well, back in 2010. However, you should know that 52% of first pregnancies end in a miscarriage and it does not mean that you will have another. If you are in a rush to try and have a baby because you are scared, don’t be. Stressing will only make TTC harder and will be more difficult on a baby when you do get pregnant. 

     

    Obviously, this is yours and FI’s decision. We can’t tell you what to do with a life changing decision. πŸ™‚

     

    Post # 6
    Member
    1762 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: August 2014

    @chasesgirl:  I agree 

    OP: Do whatever works for you and makes you both happy.

    Post # 8
    Member
    7450 posts
    Busy Beekeeper
    • Wedding: February 2013

    I think it’s a really personal decision. As a women who is now 9 weeks pregnant, I could not imagine being pregnant at my wedding and during the planning. I have just felt really cappy, and I know my wedding day wouldn’t have been as enjoyable if I had been pregnant. Lots of people are pregnanthin their wedding day, so obviously it can be done.

    Post # 12
    Hostess
    3369 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: May 2013

    @LunaFleurLavender:  Sorry about your miscarriage, I had one as well back in 2010, so I understand that pain and wanting to try again. I just don’t see the point in rushing if it just means putting things off for a few months or keeping them as is. As has been said, there’s no guarantee you’ll get pregnant right away. 

    And my bad, I thought you were WAY younger! Haha! I would have never guessed 25! 

    Post # 14
    Member
    1622 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: September 2012

    I think you should do what’s in your hearts and who cares what others think!  But for me, I’d wait.  ONLY because I’d want to enjoy my wedding day and honeymoon to the utmost and early pregnancy especially can be rough….exhausting, nauseous, etc.  But at the same time, I can understand being ready to start your family and not wanting to wait any longer.  

    Ultimately, do what’s best for the two of you! πŸ™‚

    Post # 15
    Member
    2622 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: November 1999

    Being 11 weeks pregnant now, I would have shot myself if I felt like I do today on my wedding day. Nevermind the last 2 months that would have been before the wedding with all the added stress and planning. I would NOT be a happy camper.

     

    6 months really isnt that long and while you think you will be happier, its not going to change much. Maybe compromise and start TTC 1 month before?

     

    I would want to enjoy my husband and my wedding instead of worrying about when Ill have time for a nap or if I will even want to eat my wedding dinner.  I would want to be sure that my husband was my number one priority that day and not my desire for a baby so that I couldnt wait a few months.

     

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