(Closed) Pregnant Bridesmaid

posted 9 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

Hmmm this is a new angle. Usually it’s the bride that is all up in arms about pregnant maids, not the groom! What’s his problem with it anyway? How does it at all affect him?

Post # 4
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2010

Why is your Fiance opposed to having your sister in the wedding party?  If it’s important to you to include her – and I assume it is since she’s your sister – and she’s not worried, then I think you’re fine to go forward with your original plan.

Post # 5
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

has your Fiance said why he doesn’t want her in the wedding? Because hes afraid she will not be able to attend so close to her due date?

I would keep her in the wedding if I was you because her dress can be altered, and furthermore, if you want her to be apart of the bridal party then thats the most important thing! Laughing

Post # 6
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2010

Why doesn’t your Fiance want her in the wedding? Does he not like her or is he worried about her health? Or just doesn’t want a pregnant person to mess up the asthetic?

I am so sick of people announcing their pregnancies with the due dates right around our wedding. While I am very happy for everyone, I just can’t hear another one without flipping out. My sister is due a little before and she is still coming to the wedding. Most Bmaid dresses have a maternity version. If I were you I’d leave it up to her. 3 weeks is pushing it, but better for her to be pregnant than have a newborn.

Post # 7
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

I personally hope that none of my girls get preggo any time soon cause i didnt want them to be a) uncomfortable in June b) about to pop on my wedding day c) no fun cause she will likely chose to not be involved with bachelorette stuff and fun limo times.

I think its funny that your sweetie doesnt want her in it.  Usually its the bride!

 

Post # 8
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2010 - Carlouel Yacht Club

I am curious; why does your fiance not want her to be a part of the wedding party? There are so many beautiful bridesmaid dresses that you can pick for someone who is pregnant! Mrs. Apple Cider had two pregnant bridesmaids, and I think that they looked beautiful in the dress that she picked:

http://www.weddingbee.com/2009/12/19/its-time-bridal-shoot-part-two-the-ladies-and-a-gent/

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Post # 9
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2010 - Philippe Park

I think it’s always so cute when I see a pregnant bridemaid. I love how the dress hugs her baby bump, unlike the other BMs. So cute!

Post # 10
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

I would definitely say keep her in the wedding.  She is your sister, you may regret kicking her out later. 

Post # 11
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Helper bee

She is your sister, I would say keep her in. I don’t know how well your relationship is with her but kicking her out of the wedding might really hurt her feelings…

Post # 12
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

::waits patiently for OP to explain why Fiance doesn’t want preggo sis in wedding::

Post # 13
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

Why do people get upset about pregnant bridesmaids? I might be worried if the due date was RIGHT around the wedding, but otherwise I think it is sweet. It is the circle of life – marriage and birth! I kind of want a pregnant bridesmaid, but that will NOT be happening – not if my bridesmaids have a say 😉

Post # 14
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

@Pom Pom- agreed! 3 of my 4 bridesmaids might all be pregnant by the time our wedding rolls around… if thats how it happens i think it would be super cute!!!!

Post # 15
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

@krissybee – it WOULD! I’m a lil jealous 😉

Post # 16
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2009

As long as she’s still up for it, I think there’s no reason to exclude her.  I could see not wanting to have to stand that long when you’re about to pop, but I’d leave it up to her.  And congrats on the new niece or nephew!

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