(Closed) Pregnant Bridesmaid(s)/MoH – Vent/Reassurance

posted 7 years ago in Family
Post # 3
460 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

you are focusing on all the details, that perfect styled look may not work out but at the end of your wedding you will walk away with a husband who you can start a family with as soon as you would like. I know its hard to set aside the details you feel that make the wedding but YOU make the wedding not the bridesmaids. 

Post # 5
35 posts
  • Wedding: June 2012

Sorry to hear that you’re feeling a general lack of enthusiasm. That’s what Wedding Bee is for – lots of encouragement on this site, and every one is wedding brain 24/7!!

Honestly, I TOTALLY understand where you’re coming from. My Fiance and I don’t have kids, and didn’t even have any close children in our lives up until recently (my Maid/Matron of Honor has 2 now). We’ve been really adamant to have no kids at our wedding, and thankfully my Maid/Matron of Honor was totally fine with it.

This is a really big moment for you, so it’s okay to be selfish, and want to be the centre of attention (as long as you’re not hurting people’s feelings, which it definitely doesn’t sound like). 

I remember a girl at my work burst into tears when she found out her Maid/Matron of Honor was going to be 8 months pregnant at her wedding. While she was crying she kept saying how horrible of a person she was for being upset. She just needed to let it out. The situation wasn’t ideal, but in the end her wedding was stunning, and she still is BFFs with her Maid/Matron of Honor. 

So long story short, don’t feel guilty about these thoughts – we all have them!!! You’re not being a zilla, you’re just being a bride 🙂

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