(Closed) Pregnant FSIL, might miss the wedding

posted 4 years ago in Emotional
Post # 5
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

@julies1949:  +1

there is more right?

Post # 6
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

@Lizzy723:  It’s ok to be disappointed that she might not be there. But I think you realise that your FSIL’s health is paramount. So don’t dwell on it. Your wedding will be wonderful with or without her.

I was recently at a wedding where the bride’s brother and SIL couldn’t travel because the SIL was pregnant. It was still a wonderful happy day, and they talked by Skype on the morning of the wedding.

Post # 7
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: April 2019

@julies1949:  +1

OP, yes it is sad that she may miss the wedding, but her health is paramount right now.

Post # 9
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2016

Would it be possible to move the wedding up ? 

Post # 11
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: April 2019

@Lizzy723:  If she just found out she is pregnant, she *should* be fine for your wedding, but she may need to sit down instead of stand with you at the ceremony.

Post # 13
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: April 2019

@Lizzy723:  Ok in that case, yes she will probably miss the wedding. But the baby/pregnancy is a higher priority for them than your wedding. I hope she and baby are ok and she is able to carry the pregnancy to full term safely.

Post # 15
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

@Lizzy723:  I think it is okay to be dissapointed but don’t let her know! She probably feels aweful and has a baby to think about 

Post # 16
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: April 2019

@Lizzy723:  Hopefully they can celebrate with you another time, and celebrate the new baby as well.

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