Pregnant – Not sure how to feel

posted 2 years ago in Emotional
Post # 76
9213 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper

anonon22 :  Yup! I’ve had a great experience so far with Kaiser btw (I’m in the Bay Area). I’m only 19 weeks so haven’t been through the whole process obviously, but so far, so good!

Post # 78
2772 posts
Sugar bee

My first appointment was 7 Weeks, 5 Days. But the month previous I had a CP, so they got me in a bit sooner. Sounds like you’re on track. I’d stop the period talk and say I’m 6 weeks pregnant, THEN they should schedule you within the next month for your dating ultrasound and your first prenatal visit. 

Good luck! Ask all the questions you’d like! Lots and lots of helpful ladies here!

Post # 79
6663 posts
Bee Keeper

My first appointments (not Kaiser) were always scheduled at 8-10 weeks. Best of luck to you! The Bees are here to help. 

Post # 81
10 posts
  • Wedding: June 2019

Hi! I’m newbie here and I’ve just found your post. I’m really sorry you hav to go thrugh this. But I hope the situation has changed for the better, hasn’t it?

Post # 83
4827 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: January 2017

anonon22 :  sad to hear. He’s never going to be your friend like the old days, his fiance is going to be his first priority and that’s normal. What’s done is done, no point in torturing yourself over it now, but your reliance on him has to stop. If you’re having a hard time managing your emotions then perhaps therapy can help you deal with everything. GL

Post # 84
1639 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2018

anonon22 :  Sorry bee.  I agree he probably had an agenda and that should tell you about his character.  Real friends don’t act this way.  He was never really your friend….he was a f-buddy until Ms. Right came along and you are all of the sudden an inconvenient problem.  Trust me, no matter what you think he was no big loss.  Get some therapy if you’re able, to help you through this and move on with your life bee.  Good luck.

Post # 86
9828 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: City, State

Oh bee, I’m sorry.

I agree he should have been up front with you and it was totally shit he just backed out the day of the appointment and left you hanging.

No advice other than end what’s left of the friendship and move on. 

Post # 87
484 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2019 - Southampton, UK

Hi Bee, it’s good to hear from you. I’m gld you’re doing well. Sorry the friendship took a turn. Thanks for updating us. 🙂

Post # 88
724 posts
Busy bee

I think you definitely should go talk to a professional if you are having negative thoughts and guilt about the abortion. You don’t need to do this alone. There are resources out there to help you cope. A lot of women deal with emotional trauma after an abortion. There is no shame in seeking help. Especially if you have no one to confide in in real life. 

Post # 89
11650 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2015

anonon22 :  what a POS he is to not show up to the appointment. No wonder you felt so shaken. That’s really rotten, I’m so sorry you went through that alone. 

He has shown you who he is, and it hurts but in truth you can and will make better friends, real friends. 


Post # 90
141 posts
Blushing bee

 Agree with the posts above. You ought to get some professional support.

Just read the whole thread and glad you are doing ok 🙂

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