- 6 years ago
- Wedding: April 2014
Thank you for this post. I think I love you. We’re still in the first few cycles, but it’s hard and questions like this do stir up some unpleasant emotions…. You feel somehow flawed, like you’re failing, and like your body is not doing what it’s supposed to do. I find that yes, people do brag when they concieve right away, and then they have the nerve to say “oh, just relax, oh don’t worry, oh…blah blah blah.” Meanwhile, they’re sitting there all smug rubbing their tummy. I always warned my husband that it can take some time, but I never really took that to heart. I thought it would be easier than this.
My first daughter I was pregnant in the first go around. We BDed 19 times in 4 day fertility window (I didn’t know this until AFTER I was pregnant. I was 16 and just a horny teenager that was keeping count because it was a new guy.) <br /><br />My second daughter was a one BD baby. We had a BC failure one time and I was pregnant. I went on to place that baby for adoption.
I actually voted no to this because I thought I was going to get my period and had no symptoms. And now here I am 5 weeks pregnant after the first try and getting off BCP after ten years 🙂
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