(Closed) Prematurely excited? No ring because of money?

posted 6 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

Oh πŸ™ Maybe he is trying to throw you off the scent? Maybe I would wait until you’ve come back home from the trip, and if there’s been no proposal by then, sit down and have a long talk? Good luck dear, I hope he is (albeit it, cruelly) teasing you.

Post # 4
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Blushing bee

@claireos: 

I agree that I think he’s trying to throw you off. IMO, the money doesn’t sound like a logical explanation, so he may just really be trying to catch you off guard. Try to have a good time this weekend and not stress over it and then if nothing happens, talk to him after the trip. Hang in there! Best of luck!!!!

Post # 7
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

I’m sorry, I don’t want to get your hopes up, but it well sounds like he’s planning something!

Post # 9
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

Well, given that money isn’t actually an issue for you two, it does sound like he is just using it as an excuse. I do hope it means he is planning something for you and that you wont be waiting long! Given that youve been to the jeweller and discussed timelines for production you would think he is just trying to surprise you!

Post # 10
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: July 2015

I read somewhere that when a guy starts doing housework, especially if he normally doesn’t, it could mean he wants to propose soon because he is trying to get you to see he is a keeper before asking you to marry him πŸ™‚

 

I know you already know it’s coming, but I agree with the other girls that he is just trying to throw you off. Maybe since he knows that you knew when it was done and all of that, he wants to make you think it’s not coming yet so he can suprise you! super exciting! πŸ™‚

Post # 12
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

Wow, he cleaned the house?  What a great thing to come home to!

 

Idk what’s going on w/the money, but at least he’s been in on the ring making process.  Your time’s coming soon enough!

Post # 13
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118 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: February 2012

Well hopefully he has proposed to you by now since it’s the weekend. πŸ™‚ Sounds like something is fishy about all the housework.lol But hey it’s a nice treat. πŸ™‚ I don’t know what to tell you, but good luck.:)

Post # 14
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

It sounds like something to throw you off, since he knows this is the one thing to bother you. If you think he doesnt have the money, you will most likely not expect a proposal, right?

Let us know any updates! I’ll admit it is a little mean for him to use the one thing that scares you to throw him off his scent (if that’s what he is doing) but it might have worked!

Post # 15
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

@claireos:  

So what ended up happening? Did he propose?

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