- 7 years ago
- Wedding: August 2012
@blueskye: The OP’s fiance isn’t marrying her instead of a fellow doctor by ACCIDENT. Regardless of your opinions on the worth of a woman that stays at home–that is what he WANTS. If it wasn’t what he wanted, he would encourage her to pursue a career. Or he would have picked someone else to be his wife. I think you are being extremely rude here—I don’t think that the OP is looking to go after any of the assets that are coming into the marriage, but the way things stand right now it seems that the wedding will just be a fancy party since their marriage will hold no real meaning…..based on her future husbands 1st prenup (that you agree with) she will be no more entitled to a cent if they split up after 20 years of marriage and 5 kids (after he starts looking for a newer model) than if they broke off now before the wedding. Is that really what marriage has come to in this day and age? A big superficial party to celebrate an empty commitment?