(Closed) Prepare/Enrich

posted 6 years ago in Relationships
  • poll: What did you and your SO score on the Prepare/Enrich test?
    Vitalized : (1 votes)
    13 %
    Harmonious : (3 votes)
    38 %
    Traditional : (0 votes)
    Conflicted/Devitalized : (4 votes)
    50 %
  • Post # 3
    Member
    248 posts
    Helper bee

    We took it a month ago and the results showed that we are a Conflicted couple. But we already knew this. We are complete opposites. But the results don’t mean that it’s the end of the world, or that we shouldn’t get married. We are proud of how far we’ve come in working on our issues, and we will only continue to improve. 

    The more detailed results were pretty accurate in showing where our problems lie and in showing our differences. But we already knew most of it. I still take the results seriously, as it means we still have things to work on, but it doesn’t mean I’m going to go running for the hills. Wink

    Post # 6
    Member
    454 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: June 2011

    Honestly I cannot remember what we got but “conflicted” is ringing a bell.  We were actually having some issues at the time so it makes a lot of sense that we did not score “better.”  My husband in particular was very upset with the results on his personal issues.  He always considered himself to be a really confident person and he was shocked that his results suggested that he had confidence issues.  He was going through a very hard time at work when we took the test and feeling unappreciated and even abused, so it makes sense looking back.

    I also am like a teacher’s pet and enjoy scoring high and I was horrified at first that my rabbi would no longer want to marry us.  But he was just like, OK these are the areas where you need to be aware of your differences and be sure to communicate and compromise and work on them.

    This first almost year has been a huge learning and growing experience.  I have learned that nothing is as it seems on paper or on the outside.  I did worry about it beforehard like you are but it’s nice to know that conflicted =/= doomed.

    Post # 8
    Member
    2 posts
    Wannabee
    • Wedding: October 2012

    We just got our results back on Sunday, and it came back “Conflicted.” I guess I wasn’t all that surprised—we are opposites in a lot of ways—but it did leave me shaken. It’s reassuring to know that there are other couples who have scored low and didn’t consider it the death knell in their marriage plans.

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