(Closed) pressure!

posted 6 years ago in Family
Post # 3
674 posts
Busy bee

That is an insane demand. I suggest that you talk to your folks or find some way to pay for the things she promised and don’t take anything from her at all.

If you give in on this, she’ll know that she can threaten to withold whatever she wants in the future and you’ll cave. If she’s willing to make these kinds of crazy demands while it’s just the two of you, what if you decide to have children? What kind of hoops will she force you to jump through then in order to keep her from denying things from your kids that she gives to her other grandchildren?

It may cause drama. Regardless, when you talk to your folks, let them know that you specifically don’t want problems from this. You don’t want them to speak up or say anything, and the only reason you are coming to them is to avoid the nastiness from his family. Hopefully, they will support you and understand why you don’t want to give in to the in-laws, but you also don’t want to purposefully stir the pot any more than what they are currently doing.

Post # 4
3303 posts
Sugar bee

Wow, how much money are you talking?

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