(Closed) Pretty sure he just asked my dad!

posted 5 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
9954 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2012

Sounds promising !!

As for the “he’s being super cryptic” bit… I take it this means you are asking him (maybe even more than once)

Girl, let it be… let it lie.

You need to back off, and let the guy do it in his own time / own way.

Join the SIUP Pact if you need to… and work Mr Bee’s Plan… but you need to back off (if you are asking a lot of Questions etc)

Waiting goes a lot easier, when you try to concentrate on something else…

Enjoy “the moment” for what it is… THIS Christmas… Christmas 2013.  Make memories, don’t put yourself in a spot where you look back in time and can only recall JUST the feeling of longing / waiting

That said…

It is Engagement Season… US Thanksgiving to Valentines Day

And when a Man has the Green Light (and usually The Ring) they tend to find it “burns a hole in their Pocket”

So chances are good that it will happen in the next 10 days (4 prominent occasions… and Men LOVE Occasions for Proposing… Christmas Eve – Christmas Day – New Years Eve – and New Years Day)…. otherwise it is just a short 7-1/2 Weeks = 53 Days until Valentines)

Hang in there…


Post # 4
11693 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: May 2014

@MissAmethyst:  ditto PP.  I almost runied my Christmas last year thinking it was coming then because we were home with his family instead of where we live now.  It happened 3 months later for my Birthday.

Focus on Christmas, focus on what’s happening and ENJOY Christmas.  Try to avoid wondering every second if he’s going to do it now!

Post # 5
9792 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2015

That’s great!! I’m in a similar scenario only seeing the folks a few times a year. Next is in March and I prayyyyyy it happens then!!! Otherwise… Blah. He refuses to do it over the phone!!

Post # 7
9954 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2012

To @MissAmethyst: Glad to hear you had a GREAT Christmas…

Lol, now get off the Internet and go give him a hug…


Post # 8
337 posts
Helper bee

@MissAmethyst:  this is so exciting! congrats ๐Ÿ™‚ I don’t have my dad with me but I bet this is a huuuge step, now relax and be ready!

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