(Closed) Princesslettuce no longer engaged

posted 4 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
9188 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2013 - Rocky Mountains USA

@princesslettuce14:  I’m sorry! What a superficial prick!!! And he wasn’t even decent enough to tell you himself. 

I know it must suck right now, but you definitely dodged a bullet. ((Hugs))

Post # 4
839 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

@princesslettuce14:  Oh man. I am really sorry things didn’t work out, but it sounds like you dodged a bullet! He sounds like a complete douche with unrealistic expectations. I hope you feel better about this soon!

Post # 5
1524 posts
Bumble bee

@princesslettuce14:  don’t waste your tears love. If he is really sooo immature to let stupid petty things bother him to such a degree then he is not worth your time. Honestly a person like that will never be happy as even models have flaws. What bullshit. My heart goes out to you

Post # 6
3403 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

@princesslettuce14:  Oh wow, I’m so sorry!

Well, the one good thing here is that you dodged marrying such a complete douche.


Post # 7
1592 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2014

Holy crap! I’m so sorry!! (And apparently he wanted you to look what, sickly?)

Post # 8
7494 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: February 2013

What in the world?! Can’t tie knots….?

I’m sorry. He sounds like an idiot, and you’re better off without him.

Post # 9
796 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

A lot of commenters below me will talk about how you deserve better, he is an ass etc!



and honestly better you found this now than after marriage! 

but that doesnt mean you cant break down and cry! cry it out, get some iced cream and brownies, and then this weekend get some wine and have a girls night!

Post # 10
2459 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

WOW! WTF!? THOSE are reasons enough for him to not want to be with you!? You’re right. First-rate ASSHOLE.

Post # 11
11334 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

@princesslettuce14: I’m sorry. Sorry you had to go through this to find out.

Post # 12
926 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2014

This (very slightly) reminds me of my ex-boyfriend… I’ll never forget when he told me he didn’t know how he would react to me getting pregnant, because he didn’t “think pregnant women are attractive.” I am soooooo happy I (as PPs said) dodged that bullet. My current fiance told me he can’t wait to have children with me and that he thinks pregnant women are beautiful (as he should)!!

That being said, I am so, so sorry that you’re going through this. You know it’s gonna hurt and be hard for a while, but you are so much better off without him… and from the wording of your original post, I know you know that.


Oh, and no matter what this asshole thinks, you are beautiful, no matter your measurements, how bloated you are one day, or no matter how “thick” a pair of shoes might make your ankles look.

What a douchelord. 

Now, years down the road when you’re happy with someone (and he’s not), PLEASE make it a point to take a photo with some bangin’ heels on–zoomed into your ankles–on your wedding day 😉

Post # 13
511 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2014


I am SO sorry you’re going through this. This guys sounds like a narccisistic commitment-phobe… seriously- thick ankles and can’t tie nots. I’m glad even in your emotional state you can see how ridiculous this is. Hugs!

Post # 14
796 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2012


@princesslettuce14:  do this Please! “

Now, years down the road when you’re happy with someone (and he’s not), PLEASE make it a point to take a photo with some bangin’ heels on–zoomed into your ankles–on your wedding day ;-)”

Post # 15
6747 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2014

There is definitely something very deeply wrong with him and something way more going on. He likely hates that he can’t tie his own ties and that his penis is too small to satisfy you. So instead, he takes it out on you and says you can’t tie knots and your ankles are too thick. Honestly, I don’t think my FI even knows what my ankles look like. He certainly isn’t looking there!! I’m sorry that he’s not only such a douchebag, but that he’s ended a relationship over reasons that are weird, superficial and immature. I hope his future wife gets pregnant and ends up with the fattest cankles in the world. Sorry, hun. *hug*

Post # 16
351 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 2013

be strong!  this man is  an idiot ! spend some rime treating your self and getting over this and you will be so strong after this ! 

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