(Closed) Princesslettuce no longer engaged

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 17
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523 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

I’m so sorry! Just remember that you will eventually feel better

Post # 18
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

@princesslettuce14:   I’m so sorry you are hurting, but as you know, he did you a huge favor.  You are now free and in time will find someone who deserves you and appreciates you.  Thank goodness you found out in time.  Wishing you strength.  *hugs*  

Post # 19
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Buzzing bee

@princesslettuce14:  Ohhh I’m sooo sorry to hear this princess!!  HOW AWFUL!!!!  If he was any man worth keeping, when you confronted him, he’d have apologized and GRAVELED for you to stay.

Stay strong!!  You deserve better–I honestly thought this when I read a post you started earlier this week about him sending you pics of shoes and trying to dress you!  A great man might want you to dress down and be comfy, but not try and dress you up and make you feel like your clothing decisions are not valid!

You ARE VERY THIN for your height!!  Thick ankles?!?  Compared to what?!?

We are here for you!!!! 

Post # 20
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: January 2014

OMG I am so sorry…it is awful….I hope you will get better soon…

And btw. you are super thin…with your hight and weight…He can go and look for somebody skinnier….good luck with that though..

It is very painful…and I recently heard a story similar to yours…My FI’s friend is dating a girl for a while…and according to him she is not as pretty as his previous girls; and he believes that maybe she is not his best choice….and he is not as sexually atracted to her as he is to some other women….After my finace told me about it..I looked at the guy and I looked at the girl…and I can tell you..that this girl is very beautiful..and he is an idiot for saying all these things and thinking that he is such a macho…Couple of weeks ago he proposed to her….and she obviously doesn’t know about what he says to his friends….and I have tons of mixed feelings about this couple now…I am sorry for the girl..and I think she doesn’t deserve any of that..and it doesn’t make any sense why he keeps being with her if he feels that way..

Anyways, I am really sorry for what happened….but I think it is better this way…then being with a guy who is talking bad about you behind your back and disrespecting you like this in front of his friends…Imagine, if you would’ve got married with him..and then gained weight after delivering HIS baby..if he thinks you are not skinny enough now..god knows how he would’ve acted towards you later..

I am sorry..please get better

Post # 21
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2015

@princesslettuce14:  Well damn. I am so sorry, I know this must really a really rought time. But congratulations on a life free from this shallow manchild.

Trust me honey, a guy like that will find fault with every woman he dates. He could date Adriana Lima and pick her apart and decide she wasn’t marriage material. You dodged a bullet!

Post # 22
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12244 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: May 2013

What a DOUCHE! Thank GOD you dodged that bullet!

Post # 23
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2015

@princesslettuce14:  I agree that he sounds like a total narcissist. I’m so sorry you’re in pain right now. I hope down the road you’ll feel so much better about dodging this bullet! Big hugs!!

Post # 24
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

@princesslettuce14:  Take your ‘thick ankles’ and RUN! What an awful human being. I feel for you right now, but thankfully you realized this instead of marrying the douche. 

Post # 25
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547 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2019

I’m so sorry hunny, I think rather than being a prince disguised as a frog he was a frog pretending to be a prince. You will meet someone who deserves you but until then focus on being yourself and being awesome. Massive hugs xx

Post # 26
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660 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2015

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@jwdesiree:  My ex was exactly like yours too! He thought pregnancy and all other lady issues (ahem, periods) were disgusting and unattractive.  My Fiance also cannot wait to see me oregnant, he has often said it’s a beautiful thing what a woman’s body can do. I’m so lucky!

 

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@princesslettuce14:  I’m so sorry you had to read that. Take comfort in the fact you are now free to find someone more deserving of you. That guys a first class douche and no one deserves to be treated the way he treated you. 

Post # 27
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

Wow!!!

Like PPs have said, you dodged a bullet! Imagine if you were to come across that chat after you were married. Count your lucky stars!

Cry, scream and get it all out. It’s not gonna be easy but you will get through it. Take things one day at a time.

 

Post # 28
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6665 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: October 2013

@princesslettuce14:  I did something similar-read an email from my ex to his mom explaining that it wasn’t going to work out bc I threw clothes in the laundry basket inside out. First rate A-hole. At least you didn’t go through with marrying him like I did!!!!! Best wishes for getting through this to the other side….

Post # 30
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: October 2013

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@DolceVita:  +100

Post # 31
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

I’m so sorry.  I know it’s hard but please don’t let his superficial comments make you believe that crap about yourself. (I mean you will feel badly for awhile, but don’t actually believe that anything he said means anything on who you are as a person.)

I’m not expressing myself well, but this makes me mad!  Hugs.

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