(Closed) Problem Guests

posted 8 years ago in Family
Post # 3
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2010

Well, it doesn’t sound to me like you have much choice in the matter. It’s not like you can leave them off of the invitations, so the best you can do is try to ignore them on your wedding day, and accept that one or both may be no-shows. Unfortunately, that’s the cost of keeping the peace with your new family, and your FH (in case of the BM).

Hopefully you’ll have so many other things to focus on that they won’t be an issue for you. Maybe you can let your Maid/Matron of Honor and bridesmaids know your concerns, and it can be their job to keep them away from you that day, and intercede if they see you being annoyed by them directly.

Post # 4
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

I agree with notyourtypicalbride designate someone in your bridal party to be your “body guard” for the wedding day!!!

Post # 6
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110 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

I’m glad he’s getting some help for his anxiety but I just wanted to say something about your first post. You wrote “He needs to pull himself together!”. I think what you should understand about anxiety disorders is that you can’t just pull yourself together. You need a lot of help and sometimes medication. He probably would love to attend your wedding and visit your house, but his disorder makes this difficult.

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