Problem with a groomsmen and his wife and it's stressing me out!!

posted 2 years ago in Grooms/men
Post # 18
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182 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: February 2016

As an outsider with a very limited view of the situation, it sounds like she just doesn’t like you and/or your Fiance and seized on that one comment about cash as justification for cutting you out. I know I’m guilty of blowing little comments out of proportion in my mind if I already don’t like the person. See how things go after the wedding – maybe it will go back to normal and if not, oh well, you’re better off.

Post # 19
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1819 posts
Buzzing bee

katiefitness92 :  Be careful… even though they are being “friendly” at this moment… they showed their true colors. For your sake I hope they don’t back out last minute, don’t show up and say nothing or create drama the day of. I understand about the Queen Bee of the group. If she says jump, the entire pack jumps. I hate people like that. I think it is very weird that they go from being a-holes to nice. I don’t trust it. One whom gossips, doesn’t just stop. I am sure you are being discussed as we speak over your messages, so chose your words wisely. I would also suggestion making new friends since this group sounds like a bad pack of people.
Add on to this, the comment above mine, I agree. The chick used the cash comment as your ticket out of the group. You also only gave us 1 comment you said but they are discussing more than just that about you. Again, be careful.

Post # 20
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345 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2019

These group of friends… are they a bunch of life long guy friends and the wives are just friends just because they’re around each other? In my experience, there’s always drama in that situation. 

If the women were talking about me and my Fiance behind my back, I’d have more than a few things to say. This woman is a trouble maker. Even if I thought something someone said was tacky, I wouldn’t hold it against them and get the rest of my friends to turn. How old are all of these people? It’s like high school all over again. 

Post # 21
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8580 posts
Bumble Beekeeper

katiefitness92 :  

Whatever else you worry about , don’t worry about pictures , they seem like a huge deal now but  you don’t spend all that much time poring over them in later years anyway, really you don’t. 

  Probably   all that will happen is you saying  ” oh yes him and her ,  we were friends  once  but not now.   idk where they  aret hese days ………”. I seriously doubt  ‘years down the line’  you will give a crap about their faces in your pics

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